Monday, December 13, 2010

The Big O!!!

After a couple of days break from checking out my secret locker, I'm happy to return to you with a secret to set this week off to a good start, because it's a secret that comes from within.

Today's secret for Sheshena's Secret Locker was inspired by a previous post: My First Time.

However, although today's secret isn't about this source's first time, reading that entry made this person want to share something about herself that nobody else knows.

Today's secret comes from a woman...who has never experienced the Big O!

She's not a virgin.

As a matter of fact, she's had a few years experience in the bedroom, but feels that the work she's put in has yet to yield the reward she feels she's due.

She's heard stories about how it's supposed to feel when a woman reaches her peak, but has not been able to tell one of her own. She doesn't understand why her experience hasn't been as pleasurable as other women. She wants to be able to experience what she's heard about and has yearned to make her dream a reality.

She just doesn't know how.

And she's open to any advice anyone has to offer to give her guidance on her pursuit of the Big O.

So, here's mine: pick up a book. And my guess is, she'll see that she's not the only one. And this problem is actually not that uncommon.

I"m always a fan of reading, no matter what the topic or reason. So, a book is always a good place to start.

One book she may be interested in is The Big O by Lou Paget.

And beyond that...well, I'll leave that for anyone else who has a tip or two to offer.

Feel free.



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3 comments:

  1. She should watch a flick and see how the pros do it. That should give her an idea or two!

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  2. *Let me start out by saying this is just MY OPINION*
    Many woman have not experienced the "big O" mainly becasue they are unfamiliar with their own body. I beleive that once a woman knows how to achieve her own "big O" then she can dirct someone else. Every woman is different and every body is different so what would work for me, might not work for someone els. Reading the book and watchin a flick are all great ideas BUT nothing is better than hands on experience. Try different things will help but remember ONE thing DONT STOP. ;-)

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  3. I agree 100%. My first O! was self-serviced. Once I figured out how to do it on my own, the rest followed.

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